Monday, December 22, 2008

Christmas: Part II. The Not So Merry Side

When someone loves you, and you love them... sometimes, it feels like fresh air. Like you never had a chance to breathe before. And sometimes, when that person you love has things bigger than them, they have to stop loving you. At that point, you can't fix it. You can't do anything to get the love back, they totally detach in a matter of hours... days... not even a week.

When that person breaks the news, the other doesn't see it coming. Which is the bad part. And they're crushed and feel like they can't breathe anymore. That's the worse part. And then they feel selfish because as much as they HATE everything the break brings... it makes sense. It has to be that way. This is not the biggest thing in their life... but it's the biggest thing in yours. So you're a mess, and they aren't.

But they have bigger things. This is tiny. So you should get over it...

Easier said than done. But, at least you understand it. Even if you never had a chance to start.

Good things last the shortest amount of time.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

thank you for speaking to my heart. i love you. Sarah :)